It was narrated that `Abdullah bin Sarjis said:
"The Messenger of Allah forbade men to perform ablution with the water left over by a woman, and women to perform ablution with water left over by a man, however both (spouses) may start to perform their ablutions at the same time."Abu `Abdullah Ibn Majah said: "The first (narration) is correct, and the second (narration) is Wahm (an error)."Another chain with similar wording. (DE)
English reference (DE): Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 374 (DE)
Arabic reference (DE): Book 1, Hadith 404 (DE)