(6) باب فِي حُسْنِ الْعِشْرَةِ
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
When the Prophet (ﷺ) was informed of anything of a certain man, he would not say: What is the matter with so and so that he says? But he would say: What is the matter with the people that they say such and such?
Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 4788
In-book reference: Book 43, Hadith 16
English translation: Book 42, Hadith 4770