Hadith 23806

Chapter 24

باب 24

(24) باب فِي الاِسْتِئْمَارِ

(690) Chapter: Seeking The Girl's Permission
49
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ بِإِسْنَادِهِ زَادَ فِيهِ قَالَ " فَإِنْ بَكَتْ أَوْ سَكَتَتْ " . زَادَ " بَكَتْ " . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَلَيْسَ " بَكَتْ " . بِمَحْفُوظٍ وَهُوَ وَهَمٌ فِي الْحَدِيثِ الْوَهَمُ مِنِ ابْنِ إِدْرِيسَ أَوْ مِنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْعَلاَءِ . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَرَوَاهُ أَبُو عَمْرٍو ذَكْوَانُ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحِي أَنْ تَتَكَلَّمَ . قَالَ " سُكَاتُهَا إِقْرَارُهَا " .

The aforesaid tradition has also been transmitted through a different chain of narrators by Muhammad bin 'Amr. This version adds "If she weeps or keeps silence". The narrator added the word "weeps".Abu Dawud said:
The word "weeps" is not guarded. This is a misunderstanding of the tradition on the part of the narrator Ibn Idris or Muhammad b. al-'Ata.Abu Dawud said: This tradition has also been narrated by Abu 'Amr Dhakwan on the authority of 'Aishah who said: A virgin is ashamed of speaking, Messenger of Allah. He said: Her silence is her acceptance.

Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 2094

In-book reference: Book 12, Hadith 49

English translation: Book 11, Hadith 2089