Malik said from Hisham ibn Urwa from his father that aneffeminate man was with Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allahbless him and grant him peace. He said to Abdullah ibn Abi Umayyawhile the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,was listening. "Abdullah! If Allah grants you victory over Ta'iftomorrow, I will lead you to the daughter of Ghailan. She has fourfolds on her front and eight folds on her back." The Messenger ofAllah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "This sort ofman should not enter freely with you." (It was customary to allow menwith no sexual inclination to enter freely where there were women).
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Book 37, Hadith 5
Arabic reference: Book 37, Hadith 1462