Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr fromhis father that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman told him that she had heardA'isha, the umm al-muminin, say (when it was mentioned to her thatAbdullah ibn Umar used to say, "The dead are tormented by the weepingof the living"), "May Allah forgive Abu Abd ar-Rahman. Of course hehas not lied, but he has forgotten, or made a mistake. The Messengerof Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, passed by a jewishwoman whose family were crying over her and he said, 'You are cryingover her, and she is being tormented in her grave. ' "
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Book 16, Hadith 37
Arabic reference: Book 16, Hadith 559