(393) بَابُ إِفْشَاءِ السِّرِّ
'Amr ibn al-'As said, "I am astonished at a man who flees fromfate when he is all the time attacking it and who sees the mote in hisbrother's eye and not the trunk in his own eye. He uncovers the rancourin his brother's heart and not the rancour in himself. I have never entrustedanyone with a secret of mine and then blamed him for divulging it. Howcould I blame him when I have given him something he is incapable of doing?"
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 886
In-book reference: Book 37, Hadith 12
English translation: Book 37, Hadith 886