(218) بَابُ الرِّفْقِ فِي الْمَعِيشَةِ
Kathir ibn 'Ubayd said, "I visited 'A'isha, the Umm al-Mu'minin,may Allah be pleased with her. She said, 'Wait until I sew up my garment.'So I waited and said, 'Umm al-Mu'minin, when I go out, I will tell themthat your enemy is miserliness.' She said, 'Look to your own business.There are no new clothes for anyone who does not wear shabby clothes.'"
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 471
In-book reference: Book 26, Hadith 10
English translation: Book 26, Hadith 471