Neighbours

(55) بَابُ الْوَصَاةِ بِالْجَارِ

(55) Chapter: The recommendation to be kind to neighbours
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حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: مَا زَالَ جِبْرِيلُ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ.


'A'isha reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant himpeace, said, "Jibril, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, kept onrecommending that I treat neighbours well until I thought that he would orderme to treat them as my heirs."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 101

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 1

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 101

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حَدَّثَنَا صَدَقَةُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ، عَنْ أَبِي شُرَيْحٍ الْخُزَاعِيِّ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلْيُحْسِنْ إِلَى جَارِهِ، وَمَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلْيُكْرِمْ ضَيْفَهُ، وَمَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلْيَقُلْ خَيْرًا أَوْ لِيَصْمُتْ.


Abu Shurayh al-Khuza'i reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless himand grant him peace, said, "Anyone who believes in Allah and the Last Dayshould be good to his neighbours. Anyone who believes in Allah and the LastDay should be generous to his guest. Anyone who believes in Allah and theLast Day should be say what is good or be silent."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 102

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 2

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 102

(56) بَابُ حَقِّ الْجَارِ

(56) Chapter: The neighbour's due
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حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ فُضَيْلٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَبَا ظَبْيَةَ الْكَلاَعِيَّ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ الْمِقْدَادَ بْنَ الأَسْوَدِ يَقُولُ: سَأَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَصْحَابَهُ عَنِ الزِّنَا؟ قَالُوا: حَرَامٌ، حَرَّمَهُ اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ، فَقَالَ: لأَنْ يَزْنِيَ الرَّجُلُ بِعَشْرِ نِسْوَةٍ، أَيْسَرُ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَنْ يَزْنِيَ بِامْرَأَةِ جَارِهِ، وَسَأَلَهُمْ عَنِ السَّرِقَةِ؟ قَالُوا: حَرَامٌ، حَرَّمَهَا اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ وَرَسُولُهُ، فَقَالَ: لأَنْ يَسْرِقَ مِنْ عَشَرَةِ أَهْلِ أَبْيَاتٍ، أَيْسَرُ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَنْ يَسْرِقَ مِنْ بَيْتِ جَارِهِ.


Al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allahbless him and grant him peace, asked his Companions about fornication andthey said, "It is unlawful. Allah and His Messenger have made it unlawful."He said, "It is less serious for a man to fornicate with ten women than forhim to fornicate with his neighbour's wife." Then he asked them about stealing.They replied, "It is unlawful. Allah and His Messenger have made it unlawful."He said, "It is less serious for a man to steal from ten houses than it isfor him to steal from his neighbour's house."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 103

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 3

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 103

(57) بَابُ يَبْدَأُ بِالْجَارِ

(57) Chapter: Begin with the neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مِنْهَالٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: مَا زَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ.


Ibn 'Umar reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless himand grant him peace, said, "Jibril kept on recommending that I treat myneighbours well until I thought that he would order me to treat them as myheirs."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 104

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 4

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 104

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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلامٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ دَاوُدَ بْنِ شَابُورَ، وَأَبِي إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، أَنَّهُ ذُبِحَتْ لَهُ شَاةٌ، فَجَعَلَ يَقُولُ لِغُلاَمِهِ: أَهْدَيْتَ لِجَارِنَا الْيَهُودِيِّ؟ أَهْدَيْتَ لِجَارِنَا الْيَهُودِيِّ؟ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: مَا زَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ.


Mujahid reported that a sheep was slaughtered for 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr.He asked his slave, 'Have you given any to our Jewish neighbour? Have yougiven any to our Jewish neighbour? I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allahbless him and grant him peace, say, 'Jibril kept on recommending that I treatmy neighbours well until I thought that he would order me to treat them asmy heirs.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 105

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 5

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 105

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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلامٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ الثَّقَفِيُّ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ يَحْيَى بْنَ سَعِيدٍ يَقُولُ: حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ، أَنَّ عَمْرَةَ حَدَّثَتْهُ، أَنَّهَا سَمِعَتْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا تَقُولُ: سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: مَا زَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ لَيُوَرِّثُهُ.


Same as 101.

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 106

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 6

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 106

(58) بَابُ يَهْدِي إِلَى أَقْرَبِهِمْ بَابًا

(58) Chapter: You give to the neighbour whose door is the nearest to
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حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مِنْهَالٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو عِمْرَانَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ طَلْحَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ لِي جَارَيْنِ، فَإِلَى أَيِّهِمَا أُهْدِي؟ قَالَ: إِلَى أَقْرَبِهِمَا مِنْكِ بَابًا.


'A'isha said, "I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I have two neighbours. Towhom should I give my gifts?' He replied, 'To the one whose door is nearerto you.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 107

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 7

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 107

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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي عِمْرَانَ الْجَوْنِيِّ، عَنْ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ، رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي تَيْمِ بْنِ مُرَّةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ لِي جَارَيْنِ، فَإِلَى أَيِّهِمَا أُهْدِي؟ قَالَ: إِلَى أَقْرَبِهِمَا مِنْكِ بَابًا.


same as 108 with a different isnad.

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 108

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 8

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 108

(59) بَابُ الاَدْنَى فَالادْنَى مِنَ الْجِيرَانِ

(59) Chapter: The nearest and then next nearest neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ مُوسَى، عَنِ الْوَلِيدِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ عَنِ الْجَارِ، فَقَالَ: أَرْبَعِينَ دَارًا أَمَامَهُ، وَأَرْبَعِينَ خَلْفَهُ، وَأَرْبَعِينَ عَنْ يَمِينِهِ، وَأَرْبَعِينَ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ.


Al-Hasan was asked about the neighbour and said, "The term 'neighbour'includes the forty houses in front a person, the forty houses behind him,the forty houses on his right and the forty houses on his left."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 109

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 9

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 109

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حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عِكْرِمَةُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَلْقَمَةُ بْنُ بَجَالَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: وَلاَ يَبْدَأُ بِجَارِهِ الأَقْصَى قَبْلَ الأَدْنَى، وَلَكِنْ يَبْدَأُ بِالأَدْنَى قَبْلَ الأَقْصَى.


Abu Hurayra said, "Do not begin with your more distant neighbours beforethe closer ones. Rather begin with your nearest neighbours before the mostdistant ones."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 110

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 10

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 110

(60) بَابُ مَنْ أَغْلَقَ الْبَابَ عَلَى الْجَارِ

(60) Chapter: The person who shuts his door against his neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا مَالِكُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ السَّلاَمِ، عَنْ لَيْثٍ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ: لَقَدْ أَتَى عَلَيْنَا زَمَانٌ، أَوْ قَالَ: حِينٌ، وَمَا أَحَدٌ أَحَقُّ بِدِينَارِهِ وَدِرْهَمِهِ مِنْ أَخِيهِ الْمُسْلِمِ، ثُمَّ الْآنَ الدِّينَارُ وَالدِّرْهَمُ أَحَبُّ إِلَى أَحَدِنَا مِنْ أَخِيهِ الْمُسْلِمِ، سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: كَمْ مِنْ جَارٍ مُتَعَلِّقٌ بِجَارِهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ يَقُولُ: يَا رَبِّ، هَذَا أَغْلَقَ بَابَهُ دُونِي، فَمَنَعَ مَعْرُوفَهُ.


Ibn 'Umar said, "There was a time when no one was more entitled to aperson's money than his Muslim brother. Now people love their dirhams anddinars more than their Muslim brother. I heard the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, say, 'How many a neighbour will be brought togetherwith his neighbour on the Day of Rising! He will say, "Lord, this man closedhis door to me and refused to show me common kindness!"'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 111

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 11

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 111

(61) بَابُ لا يَشْبَعُ دُونَ جَارِهِ

(61) Chapter: A person should not eat his fill without seeing to his
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ أَبِي بَشِيرٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الْمُسَاوِرِ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ يُخْبِرُ ابْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ يَقُولُ: سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: لَيْسَ الْمُؤْمِنُ الَّذِي يَشْبَعُ وَجَارُهُ جَائِعٌ.


Ibn 'Abbas told Ibn az-Zubayr, "I heard the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, say, 'A man is not a believer who fills his stomachwhile his neighbour is hungry.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 112

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 12

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 112

(62) بَابُ يُكْثِرُ مَاءَ الْمَرَقِ فَيَقْسِمُ فِي الْجِيرَانِ

(62) Chapter: When there is a lot of stew, it is divided between the
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حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي عِمْرَانَ الْجَوْنِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ، عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ: أَوْصَانِي خَلِيلِي صلى الله عليه وسلم بِثَلاَثٍ: أَسْمَعُ وَأُطِيعُ وَلَوْ لِعَبْدٍ مُجَدَّعِ الأَطْرَافِ، وَإِذَا صَنَعْتَ مَرَقَةً فَأَكْثِرْ مَاءَهَا، ثُمَّ انْظُرْ أَهْلَ بَيْتٍ مِنْ جِيرَانِكَ، فَأَصِبْهُمْ مِنْهُ بِمَعْرُوفٍ، وَصَلِّ الصَّلاَةَ لِوَقْتِهَا، فَإِنْ وَجَدْتَ الإِمَامَ قَدْ صَلَّى، فَقَدْ أَحْرَزْتَ صَلاَتَكَ، وَإِلاَّ فَهِيَ نَافِلَةٌ.

It is reported that Abu Dharr said, "My dear friend, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, enjoined three things on me:
'Hear and obey, evenif the ruler is a slave with his limbs amputated. When you cook a stew, puta lot of water in it and then go and see the people of a neighbouring houseand give them a reasonable amount of it. Pray the prayers at their properprayers. Then if you find that the imam has already prayed, you have guardedyour prayer (by already having performed it). If not, it is a supererogatoryprayer (since you have done it again)."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 113

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 13

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 113

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حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ الصَّمَدِ الْعَمِّيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عِمْرَانَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ، عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: يَا أَبَا ذَرٍّ، إِذَا طَبَخْتَ مَرَقَةً فَأَكْثِرْ مَاءَ الْمَرَقَةِ، وَتَعَاهَدْ جِيرَانَكَ، أَوِ اقْسِمْ فِي جِيرَانِكَ.


Abu Dharr reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant himpeace, said, "Abu Dharr! If you cook some stew, make a lot of it and fulfilyour duty to your neighbours (or divide it among your neighbours)."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 114

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 14

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 114

(63) بَابُ خَيْرِ الْجِيرَانِ

(63) Chapter: The best neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا حَيْوَةُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا شُرَحْبِيلُ بْنُ شَرِيكٍ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْحُبُلِيَّ يُحَدِّثُ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ، عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَنَّهُ قَالَ: خَيْرُ الأَصْحَابِ عِنْدَ اللهِ تَعَالَى خَيْرُهُمْ لِصَاحِبِهِ، وَخَيْرُ الْجِيرَانِ عِنْدَ اللهِ تَعَالَى خَيْرُهُمْ لِجَارِهِ.


'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As reported that the Messenger of Allah,may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The best of companions inthe sight of Allah Almighty is the best of them towards his companion, andthe best of neighbours in the sight of Allah is the best of them towardshis neighbour."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 115

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 15

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 115

(64) بَابُ الْجَارِ الصَّالِحِ

(64) Chapter: The righteous neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي خَمِيلٌ، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَارِثِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: مِنْ سَعَادَةِ الْمَرْءِ الْمُسْلِمِ: الْمَسْكَنُ الْوَاسِعُ، وَالْجَارُ الصَّالِحُ، وَالْمَرْكَبُ الْهَنِيءُ.


Nafi' ibn 'Abdu'l-Harith reported that the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, said, "Part of the happiness of the Muslim man includesa spacious dwelling, righteous neighbour and a good mount"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 116

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 16

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 116

(65) بَابُ الْجَارِ السُّوءِ

(65) Chapter: The bad neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا صَدَقَةُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ هُوَ ابْنُ حَيَّانَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَجْلاَنَ، عَنْ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: كَانَ مِنْ دُعَاءِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ جَارِ السُّوءِ فِي دَارِ الْمُقَامِ، فَإِنَّ جَارَ الدُّنْيَا يَتَحَوَّلُ.


Abu Hurayra said, "Part of the supplication of the Prophet, may Allahbless him and grant him peace, was, "Oh Allah, I seek refuge with you froman evil neighbour in the Eternal World. A neighbour in this world can bechanged.

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 117

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 17

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 117

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حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدُ بْنُ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَغْرَاءَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا بُرَيْدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ أَبِي بُرْدَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي مُوسَى: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: لاَ تَقُومُ السَّاعَةُ حَتَّى يَقْتُلَ الرَّجُلُ جَارَهُ وَأَخَاهُ وَأَبَاهُ.


Abu Musa reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him andgrant him peace, said, "The Final Hour will not come until a man kills hisneighbour, his brother and his father."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 118

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 18

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 118

(66) بَابُ لا يُؤْذِي جَارَهُ

(66) Chapter: A person should not injure his neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الأَعْمَشُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو يَحْيَى مَوْلَى جَعْدَةَ بْنِ هُبَيْرَةَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ يَقُولُ: قِيلَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ فُلاَنَةً تَقُومُ اللَّيْلَ وَتَصُومُ النَّهَارَ، وَتَفْعَلُ، وَتَصَّدَّقُ، وَتُؤْذِي جِيرَانَهَا بِلِسَانِهَا؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: لاَ خَيْرَ فِيهَا، هِيَ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ، قَالُوا: وَفُلاَنَةٌ تُصَلِّي الْمَكْتُوبَةَ، وَتَصَّدَّقُ بِأَثْوَارٍ، وَلاَ تُؤْذِي أَحَدًا؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: هِيَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ.


Abu Hurayra said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,was asked, 'Messenger of Allah! A certain woman prays in the night, fastsin the day, acts and gives sadaqa, but injures her neighbours with her tongue.'The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Thereis no good in her. She is one of the people of the Fire.' They said, 'Anotherwoman prays the prescribed prayers and gives bits of curd as sadaqa and doesnot injure anyone.' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and granthim peace, said, 'She is one of the people of the Garden.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 119

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 19

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 119

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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي عُمَارَةُ بْنُ غُرَابٍ، أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ حَدَّثَتْهُ، أَنَّهَا سَأَلَتْ عَائِشَةَ أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا، فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ زَوْجَ إِحْدَانَا يُرِيدُهَا فَتَمْنَعُهُ نَفْسَهَا، إِمَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ غَضَبَى أَوْ لَمْ تَكُنْ نَشِيطَةً، فَهَلْ عَلَيْنَا فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ حَرَجٍ؟ قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ، إِنَّ مِنْ حَقِّهِ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ لَوْ أَرَادَكِ وَأَنْتِ عَلَى قَتَبٍ لَمْ تَمْنَعِيهِ، قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ لَهَا: إِحْدَانَا تَحِيضُ، وَلَيْسَ لَهَا وَلِزَوْجِهَا إِلاَّ فِرَاشٌ وَاحِدٌ أَوْ لِحَافٌ وَاحِدٌ، فَكَيْفَ تَصْنَعُ؟ قَالَتْ: لِتَشُدَّ عَلَيْهَا إِزَارَهَا ثُمَّ تَنَامُ مَعَهُ، فَلَهُ مَا فَوْقَ ذَلِكَ، مَعَ أَنِّي سَوْفَ أُخْبِرُكِ مَا صَنَعَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: إِنَّهُ كَانَ لَيْلَتِي مِنْهُ، فَطَحَنْتُ شَيْئًا مِنْ شَعِيرٍ، فَجَعَلْتُ لَهُ قُرْصًا، فَدَخَلَ فَرَدَّ الْبَابَ، وَدَخَلَ إِلَى الْمَسْجِدِ، وَكَانَ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَنَامَ أَغْلَقَ الْبَابَ، وَأَوْكَأَ الْقِرْبَةَ، وَأَكْفَأَ الْقَدَحَ، وَأطْفَأَ الْمِصْبَاحَ، فَانْتَظَرْتُهُ أَنْ يَنْصَرِفَ فَأُطْعِمُهُ الْقُرْصَ، فَلَمْ يَنْصَرِفْ، حَتَّى غَلَبَنِي النَّوْمُ، وَأَوْجَعَهُ الْبَرْدُ، فَأَتَانِي فَأَقَامَنِي ثُمَّ قَالَ: أَدْفِئِينِي أَدْفِئِينِي، فَقُلْتُ لَهُ: إِنِّي حَائِضٌ، فَقَالَ: وَإِنْ، اكْشِفِي عَنْ فَخِذَيْكِ، فَكَشَفْتُ لَهُ عَنْ فَخِذَيَّ، فَوَضَعَ خَدَّهُ وَرَأْسَهُ عَلَى فَخِذَيَّ حَتَّى دَفِئَ. فَأَقْبَلَتْ شَاةٌ لِجَارِنَا دَاجِنَةٌ فَدَخَلَتْ، ثُمَّ عَمَدَتْ إِلَى الْقُرْصِ فَأَخَذَتْهُ، ثُمَّ أَدْبَرَتْ بِهِ. قَالَتْ: وَقَلِقْتُ عَنْهُ، وَاسْتَيْقَظَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَبَادَرْتُهَا إِلَى الْبَابِ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: خُذِي مَا أَدْرَكْتِ مِنْ قُرْصِكِ، وَلاَ تُؤْذِي جَارَكِ فِي شَاتِهِ.


'Umara ibn Ghurab reported that an aunt of his told him that she asked'A'isha, Umm al-Mu'minin, "If a woman's husband desires her and she refusesto give herself to him either because she is angry or not eager, is thereanything wrong in that?" "Yes," she replied. "Part of his right over youis that if he desires you when you are on a saddle, you must not refuse him."She said, "I also asked her, 'If one of us is menstruating and she and herhusband only have a single cover, what should she do?' She replied, 'Sheshould wrap her wrapper around her and sleep with him. He can have what isabove it. I will tell you what the Prophet, may Allah bless him and granthim peace, did on one of his nights with me. I had cooked some barley andmade loaf for him. He came in, stopped at the door, and then went into themosque. When he wanted to sleep, he closed the door, tied up the waterskin,turned the cup over and put out the light. I waited for him and he ate theloaf. He did not go until I fell asleep. Later he felt the cold and cameand got me up. "Warm me! Warm me!" he said. I said, "I am menstruating."He said, "Then uncover your thighs," so I uncovered my thighs and he puthis cheek and head on my thighs until he was warm. Then a pet sheep belongingto our neighbour came in. I went and took the load away. I disturbed theProphet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he woke up, so I chasedthe sheep to the door. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,said, "Take what you got of your loaf and do not injure your neighbour'ssheep."'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 120

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 20

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 120

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حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْعَلاَءُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: لاَ يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مَنْ لاَ يَأْمَنُ جَارُهُ بَوَائِقَهُ.


Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless himand grant him peace, said, "A person whose neighbours are not safe from hisevil will not enter the Garden."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 121

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 21

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 121

(67) بَابُ لاَ تَحْقِرَنَّ جَارَةٌ لِجَارَتِهَا وَلَوْ فِرْسِنُ شَاةٍ

(67) Chapter: A woman should not disdain anything which her female neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ، عَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ مُعَاذٍ الأَشْهَلِيِّ، عَنْ جَدَّتِهِ، أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: يَا نِسَاءَ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ، لاَ تَحْقِرَنَّ امْرَأَةٌ مِنْكُنَّ لِجَارَتِهَا، وَلَوْ كُرَاعُ شَاةٍ مُحَرَّقٍ.


'Amr ibn Mu'adh al-Ashhali reported that his grandmother said, "TheMessenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Believingwomen! Do not let any of you women disdain her female neighbour's gift, evenif it is only a burnt sheep's hoof.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 122

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 22

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 122

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حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ الْمَقْبُرِيُّ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: يَا نِسَاءَ الْمُسْلِمَاتِ، يَا نِسَاءَ الْمُسْلِمَاتِ، لاَ تَحْقِرَنَّ جَارَةٌ لِجَارَتِهَا وَلَوْ فِرْسِنُ شَاةٍ.


Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless himand grant him peace, said, "Muslim women! Muslim women! A woman should notdisdain her female neighbour's gift, even if it is only a sheep's hoof."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 123

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 23

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 123

(68) بَابُ شِكَايَةِ الْجَارِ

(68) Chapter: The neighbour's complaint
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حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا صَفْوَانُ بْنُ عِيسَى، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَجْلاَنَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَجُلٌ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ لِي جَارًا يُؤْذِينِي، فَقَالَ: انْطَلِقْ فَأَخْرِجْ مَتَاعَكَ إِلَى الطَّرِيقِ، فَانْطَلَقَ فَأَخْرِجَ مَتَاعَهُ، فَاجْتَمَعَ النَّاسُ عَلَيْهِ، فَقَالُوا: مَا شَأْنُكَ؟ قَالَ: لِي جَارٌ يُؤْذِينِي، فَذَكَرْتُ لِلنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم، فَقَالَ: انْطَلِقْ فَأَخْرِجْ مَتَاعَكَ إِلَى الطَّرِيقِ، فَجَعَلُوا يَقُولُونَ: اللَّهُمَّ الْعَنْهُ، اللَّهُمَّ أَخْزِهِ. فَبَلَغَهُ، فَأَتَاهُ فَقَالَ: ارْجِعْ إِلَى مَنْزِلِكَ، فَوَاللَّهِ لاَ أُؤْذِيكَ.


Abu Hurayra said, "A man said, 'Messenger of Allah, I have a neighbourwho does me harm.' He said, 'Go and take your things out into the road.'He took his things out into the road. People gathered around him and asked,'What's the matter?' He replied, 'A neighbour of mine injures me and I mentionedit to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Hetold me, "Take your things out into the road."' They began to say, 'O Allah,curse him! O Allah, disgrace him!' When the man heard that, he came out tohim and said, 'Go back to your home. By Allah, I will not harm you.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 124

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 24

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 124

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حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حَكِيمٍ الأَوْدِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي عُمَرَ، عَنْ أَبِي جُحَيْفَةَ قَالَ: شَكَا رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم جَارَهُ، فَقَالَ: احْمِلْ مَتَاعَكَ فَضَعْهُ عَلَى الطَّرِيقِ، فَمَنْ مَرَّ بِهِ يَلْعَنُهُ، فَجَعَلَ كُلُّ مَنْ مَرَّ بِهِ يَلْعَنُهُ، فَجَاءَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ: مَا لَقِيتُ مِنَ النَّاسِ؟ فَقَالَ: إِنَّ لَعْنَةَ اللهِ فَوْقَ لَعْنَتِهِمْ، ثُمَّ قَالَ لِلَّذِي شَكَا: كُفِيتَ أَوْ نَحْوَهُ.


Abu Juhayfa said, "A man complained to the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, about his neighbour. The Prophet said, 'Take yourbags and put them in the road and whoever passes them will curse him.' Everyonewho passed him began to curse that neighbour. Then he went to the Prophet,may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'How many people I met!'He said, 'The curse of Allah is on top of their curse!' Then he told theone who had complained, 'You have enough,' or words to that effect."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 125

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 25

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 125

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حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدُ بْنُ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو زُهَيْرٍ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَغْرَاءَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْفَضْلُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ مُبَشِّرٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ جَابِرًا يَقُولُ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَسْتَعْدِيهِ عَلَى جَارِهِ، فَبَيْنَا هُوَ قَاعِدٌ بَيْنَ الرُّكْنِ وَالْمَقَامِ إِذْ أَقْبَلَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرَآهُ الرَّجُلُ وَهُوَ مُقَاوِمٌ رَجُلاً عَلَيْهِ ثِيَابٌ بَيَاضٌ عِنْدَ الْمَقَامِ حَيْثُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَى الْجَنَائِزِ، فَأَقْبَلَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ: بِأَبِي أَنْتَ وَأُمِّي يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، مَنِ الرَّجُلُ الَّذِي رَأَيْتُ مَعَكَ مُقَاوِمَكَ عَلَيْهِ ثِيَابٌ بِيضٌ؟ قَالَ: أَقَدْ رَأَيْتَهُ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: رَأَيْتَ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا، ذَاكَ جِبْرِيلُ صلى الله عليه وسلم رَسُولُ رَبِّي، مَا زَالَ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ جَاعِلٌ لَهُ مِيرَاثًا.


Jabir said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and granthim peace, to complain to him about the enmity of his neighbour. While hewas sitting between the Corner and the Maqam, the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, approached with a man who was wearing a white garment.They went to the Maqam where they were praying for the dead. He went up tothe Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'May my motherand my father be your ransom, Messenger of Allah! Who is this man I see withyou wearing the white garment?' 'You saw him?' he asked. 'Yes,' the man replied.He said, 'Then you have seen much good. That was Jibril, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, the Messenger of my Lord. He kept on recommendingthat I treat my neighbours well until I thought that he would order me tomake them my heirs.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 126

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 26

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 126

(69) بَابُ مَنْ آذَى جَارَهُ حَتَّى يَخْرُجَ

(69) Chapter: Someone who harms his neighbour until he forces him to
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حَدَّثَنَا عِصَامُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَرْطَاةُ بْنُ الْمُنْذِرِ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ، يَعْنِي أَبَا عَامِرٍ الْحِمْصِيَّ، قَالَ: كَانَ ثَوْبَانُ يَقُولُ: مَا مِنْ رَجُلَيْنِ يَتَصَارَمَانِ فَوْقَ ثَلاَثَةِ أَيَّامٍ، فَيَهْلِكُ أَحَدُهُمَا، فَمَاتَا وَهُمَا عَلَى ذَلِكَ مِنَ الْمُصَارَمَةِ، إِلاَّ هَلَكَا جَمِيعًا، وَمَا مِنْ جَارٍ يَظْلِمُ جَارَهُ وَيَقْهَرُهُ، حَتَّى يَحْمِلَهُ ذَلِكَ عَلَى أَنْ يَخْرُجَ مِنْ مَنْزِلِهِ، إِلاَّ هَلَكَ.


Thawban said, "When two men cut each other off for more than three daysand one of them dies, then they both die while relations between them aresevered and both of them are destroyed. There is no man who wrongs his neighbourto the extent that he forces him until he makes him leave his home who isnot destroyed."

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 127

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 27

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 127

(70) بَابُ جَارِ الْيَهُودِيِّ

(70) Chapter: A Jewish neighbour
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حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا بَشِيرُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ قَالَ: كُنْتُ عِنْدَ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، وَغُلاَمُهُ يَسْلُخُ شَاةً، فَقَالَ: يَا غُلاَمُ، إِذَا فَرَغْتَ فَابْدَأْ بِجَارِنَا الْيَهُودِيِّ، فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْقَوْمِ: الْيَهُودِيُّ أَصْلَحَكَ اللَّهُ؟ قَالَ: إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُوصِي بِالْجَارِ، حَتَّى خَشِينَا أَوْ رُئِينَا أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ.


Mujahid said, "I was with 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr while his slave was skinninga sheep. He said, 'Boy! When you finish, start with the Jewish neighbour.'A man there exclaimed, 'Jewish? May Allah correct you!' He replied, 'I heardthe Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, recommendthat we treat our neighbours well until we feared (or we thought) that hewould order us to make them our heirs.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 128

In-book reference: Book 6, Hadith 28

English translation: Book 6, Hadith 128