Hadith 33822

Chapter 479

باب 479

(479) بَابُ التَّسْلِيمِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ

(479) Chapter: Greeting women
85
حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُبَشِّرُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي غَنِيَّةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ ابْنَةِ يَزِيدَ الأَنْصَارِيَّةِ، مَرَّ بِيَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَأَنَا فِي جِوَارِ أَتْرَابٍ لِي، فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ: إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، وَكُنْتُ مِنْ أَجْرَئِهِنَّ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنْعِمِينَ؟ قَالَ: لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا مِنْ أَبَوَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا، وَيَرْزُقُهَا مِنْهُ وَلَدًا، فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَكْفُرُ فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ.


Asma', the daughter of Yazid al-Ansari, said, "The Prophet, mayAllah bless him and grant him peace, passed by me while I was with someyoung slavegirls belonging to me. He greeted us and said, 'Beware of theingratitude of those with blessings.' I was the boldest of them in comingforward to question him and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, what is the ingratitudeof those with blessings?' He replied, 'Perhaps one of them with remainunmarried for a long time with her parents and then Allah provides herwith a husband and provides her with children from him and then she getsangry and is ungrateful and says, "I have never seen any good at all fromyou."'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1048

In-book reference: Book 42, Hadith 85

English translation: Book 42, Hadith 1048