Hadith 33860

Chapter 479

باب 479

(479) بَابُ التَّسْلِيمِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ

(479) Chapter: Greeting women
84
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ بَهْرَامَ، عَنْ شَهْرٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَسْمَاءَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم مَرَّ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ، وَعُصْبَةٌ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ قُعُودٌ، قَالَ بِيَدِهِ إِلَيْهِنَّ بِالسَّلاَمِ، فَقَالَ: إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ: نَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ، يَا نَبِيَّ اللهِ، مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَمِ اللهِ، قَالَ: بَلَى إِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولُ: وَاللَّهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ سَاعَةً خَيْرًا قَطُّ، فَذَلِكَ كُفْرَانُ نِعَمِ اللهِ، وَذَلِكَ كُفْرَانُ نِعَمِ الْمُنْعِمِينَ.


Asma' was heard to say that the Prophet, may Allah bless him andgrant him peace, passed by a group of women sitting down in the mosque.He said to the salam with his hand and said, "Beware of the ingratitudeof those with blessings. Beware of the ingratitude of those with blessings."One of them said, "We seek refuge with Prophet, Prophet of Allah, fromingratitude for the blessings of Allah." He said, "Yes. One of you womenmight have been without a husband for a long time (and then Allah providesher with one) and she becomes angry and says, 'By Allah, I have never seena hour of good from you. That is ingratitude for the blessings of Allah.That is the ingratitude of those with blessings.'"

Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1047

In-book reference: Book 42, Hadith 84

English translation: Book 42, Hadith 1047